好多人认为心情是自己的,其实,心情还是别人的。一段时间,我身体不是很好,感觉烦燥,妻子对我说,身体不好就去看,你这样对身体也没好处啊!你不高兴,喊和孩子能高兴吗?还有一次,父亲说话,我感觉烦。妻子说,既然父亲说了,你就答应,至于你怎么做,还不是你说了算,我们能为老人做什么。只能让他们高兴。我也为此深感内疚。
人刚出生就有了心情。那时,饿了就哭,不隐瞒心情。长大后知道了,心情可以掩盖,可以调节,这才有了面具之说。
按说心情是自己的,自己可以想怎样就怎样,但其实,因为你的心情而影响了别人心情,从这个意义上说,心情就是别人的。如果你能把心情当作是别人的,也许就会多一份责任,少一份任性;多一份理解,少一份固执;多一份关爱,少一份自私;多一份和谙,少一份纷争。
Our Mood Belong to Others
Most of us hold that our moods are of ourselves. Actually, our moods belong to others. For a long time, I did not feel well and always upset. My wife comforted me and asked me to see the doctor. “Your condition does matter to yourself. On other condition, how can you make kids feel well when you are not feeling well? Another time, I was so annoyed with the talking of my father. My wife explaining again: “You’d better offer your sincere. As for how to do, you are the master. What we should do is just make them happy.” I deeply regretted for my bad manners.
Man got his own mood ever since his birth. While young, we cried when we hungry and never pretended our secrets. As we grew up, we realized that we can hide our mod and adjust it. It is just like a mask.
To be honest, the mood is our own business, and can express in the way we like to. In fact, since your mood has an influence on others, your mood belongs to others, too. If you hold your mod as others’, then you will be more responsible and less head strong, more understanding and less stubborn, more care and less selfish, more harmony and less dispute.
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