一个朋友对我说:“当你忧伤时,请看着前方。”
说来也怪,每当自己忧伤时,我很少看着前方,不是低低垂首,就是闭目不瞻,即便抬头仰望星空,也是越看越茫然。忧伤时,自己的视野真的窄了。
这个朋友有一个冰雪聪明的女儿,美丽得像朵舞蹈着的花,但她完全看不到外边的世界。朋友曾经伤心欲绝,但没有人能够帮助到他疗伤,是残酷的生活教会他看着前方,发现和拥有那些前行一段路程才能得到的喜悦。
看着前方,他看到已经长大的女儿——她更加漂亮乖巧,学会了自己照顾自己;她穿上了黑色的练功服、白色的舞蹈鞋,黑黑的头发盘得高高的,用发光的发带竖了起来;她时刻微笑着,那是汇集在她嘴角的点点明媚的春光;她变得坚强睿智,能够自食其力,如她所愿,果真成了一名受人欢迎的舞蹈老师、、、、、、
我们敲门时,上帝总是不在家。诗人朗费罗为此感慨不已:“你的命运一如他人,每个生命都会下雨。”下雨时,忧伤时,最值得做的事情就像这位朋友所说的:看着前方!一分钟不行,再看一分钟,久久地看,一次又一次地看,用一生的经历来看,用最真的爱满怀着希望来看。看看是不是“所有的雨都会停”,看看雨后的天空是不是更洁净、更辽远、更美丽,是不是还会奇迹般地出现彩虹。
上帝总有回家的时候,雨水总会停下,前方总有希望和喜悦。
Look Ahead
Once a friend suggested me: “Look ahead when you are sad. ”
It is this weird that ever when I am in sad, I am always bow my head or shut my eyes regardless his suggestion. Even when I catch a glimpse of the sky with stars, but again at sea. When I am depressed, my vision narrowed.
This friend has a lovely and smart daughter and so charming like a flower in dancing. But, she is unable to see the outside world clearly. My friend ever so grieve that he was so pessimistic. No other aids seem to help him, but he gained the delight after a journey of hardship with looking ahead that the crucial life taught him.
Look ahead, he has witnessed his daughter’s experience journey----she is more beautiful and tamer and can take care of herself. She dresses her black excise cloth, with white dancing shoes, black and high-twist hair style with lighting belt; she is always smile, indicating her charming youth in her mouth; she becomes strong in mind and smart, live on herself. As preferred, she becomes a warmly received dancing teacher…
The God is always absent when we knock His door. The great poet 朗费罗 could not help commending, “Your你的命运一如他人,每个生命都会下雨.” When it rains and we feel sad, it is worth looking ahead. If one minute is not enough, then take one more. Looking again and again with a long time, or even your whole life and your love and hope. See whether所有的雨都会停; see the sky after rain if it is cleaner, vaster, more fantastic and see whether there is rainbow in magic.
There is always the time the God go home; the stop for rain and the hope and joyous ahead.
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